Lighting the Yarhzeit Candles for My Grandparents

Sitting in the kitchen,
I was eleven.
You were forty-five.
I felt wise
and close to you
so I said,
"You were happy
that they died."

"Dad, they were bad
to you."
I saw water
in your eyes.
"Yes, they're
your parents,"
I said.
"But I know
it's good
that they died."

 

Penya Sandor

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